The Good Divorce

2017-04-20T14:28:52+00:00

Clients often want to know what makes for a “good divorce”. They instinctively know that keeping their children front and center in their divorce process will make for a better outcome for everyone in the

The Good Divorce 2017-04-20T14:28:52+00:00

Another Adventure in Post-Divorce Parenting

2014-09-02T12:22:13+00:00

Once again, we found ourselves at Terminal 4, in the evening hustle and bustle of international departures at JFK. Another year, and another trip our daughter was taking to study abroad, this time heading into

Another Adventure in Post-Divorce Parenting 2014-09-02T12:22:13+00:00

Relationship Polar Vortex

2017-04-20T14:26:49+00:00

It's a New Year, and the "Polar Vortex" is upon us all.  Really.  The entire country is submerged in Arctic air.  It's warmer in Antarctica than in Minnesota.  It's an upside-down world. Relationships, too, move

Relationship Polar Vortex 2017-04-20T14:26:49+00:00

Following Rupture With Repair

2017-04-20T14:28:35+00:00

Moving from one mindset to an alternate mindset isn't easy, even with Zen guidance or years of psychotherapy in your repertoire. It involves shifting awareness amidst the murky waters of emotion, and often doesn't happen

Following Rupture With Repair 2017-04-20T14:28:35+00:00

Closing Ceremonies

2012-10-16T15:11:24+00:00

As a species, humans seem to be drawn to ritual and to the structure of ceremonies that mark significant occasions/rites of passage in a life. Marriages involve ceremonies, some simple, some elaborate, some spiritual, some

Closing Ceremonies 2012-10-16T15:11:24+00:00

Helping Kids Move Through the Holidays

2017-04-20T14:26:57+00:00

Even the most well-meaning divorced parents can find themselves looking for love during the holidays, love from their children, that is.... The holiday season implies, for all of us, warm, inviting gatherings of family from

Helping Kids Move Through the Holidays 2017-04-20T14:26:57+00:00

When Divorce Ends in Familicide

2017-02-09T10:37:59+00:00

Divorce, as we do it in our society, goes to the heart of all losses, like death. Rarely, however, do we expect it to result in death. I have discussed the ways in which people

When Divorce Ends in Familicide 2017-02-09T10:37:59+00:00

How To Do the Holidays…..Better

2012-10-06T15:07:05+00:00

One of the most difficult aspects of family transition comes when parents and children have to face separation at holiday times. The alternating year schedule that most divorce families know is a legally convenient solution

How To Do the Holidays…..Better 2012-10-06T15:07:05+00:00